Quick answer

Usually you don't have to choose — because they're linked and share treatments, anxiety and depression are typically treated together. Where one is more severe or urgent (especially significant depression with safety concerns), it may take priority. A professional can help decide the best approach for your situation.

Often, treat both together

When you have both anxiety and depression, you usually don't have to choose which to treat first — because they're so closely linked and share treatments, they're typically addressed together. CBT can target both the anxious and depressive elements within one treatment, and medications like SSRIs and SNRIs treat both at once. So rather than a strict sequence, the common approach is an integrated one that works on both, taking advantage of how their treatments overlap. This is often the most effective route, since treating only one while ignoring the other can leave the neglected condition undermining recovery.

When one might take priority

That said, sometimes one condition is more severe, disabling, or urgent, and may warrant more immediate focus. If depression is significant — particularly if there are safety concerns like thoughts of self-harm, or if it's severe enough to prevent engaging in treatment — addressing the depression and ensuring safety usually takes priority. Severe depression can also make it hard to do the active work of anxiety treatment (like exposure), so stabilizing mood first can enable the anxiety work. Conversely, if anxiety is the dominant, most disabling problem and the depression seems secondary to it, focusing on the anxiety may lift both. The more severe or urgent condition generally gets more immediate attention.

Let a professional guide it

The best way to decide is with a professional, who can assess the severity, urgency, and relationship of your anxiety and depression and recommend the right approach for your situation — whether integrated treatment of both or prioritizing one. This isn't a decision you need to figure out alone, and the answer is individual. A note of care that takes priority over everything: if you're experiencing thoughts of harming yourself or that life isn't worth living, please reach out for support right away — contact your local emergency number, a crisis line, or a trusted person; this comes first, and these feelings are treatable. For co-occurring anxiety and depression more broadly, effective treatment exists, usually addressing both — and a doctor or therapist can help you determine the best starting point. Reaching out is the important first step.

When to talk to a professional

The combination of anxiety and depression deserves professional support — it's very common and very treatable, but harder to untangle alone. If you have thoughts of harming yourself, please reach out now: contact your local emergency number or a crisis line. You don't have to sort this out by yourself.

This article is for general information only and is not medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified health professional about your situation. If you are in crisis, contact your local emergency number or a crisis line immediately.